Tandem Stoker Tired of Staring at Husband's Ass

Veteran tandem enthusiast, Heather Coburn, is growing increasingly frustrated with her role as the perpetual stoker on the tandem she shares with her husband, Gene.

"I was all for it when he sold me on the idea a few years back, but now I think I got the butt end of the deal—literally," says Coburn. "It’s okay for shorter distances, but after about hour three of a century ride, I’m sick of it. And I’ll never ride with Gene again after we’ve had Thai food the night before. I might as well be drafting a porta-potty pumper truck."

Coburn describes how she unwittingly found herself relegated to the role of stoker.

"I was intrigued by the novelty of the tandem at first. But the novelty soon wore off. Gene’s as happy as can be out in front. He’s up there—nose in the wind, big goofy grin as he pilots us—totally oblivious to the never-changing view that is my hell as the perpetual stoker."

Besides the unchanging view of her husband’s backside, there is other unpleasantness.

"Going up hill is the worst," explains Coburn. "Only the most skilled tandem duo can get out of the saddle together. We’re not quite there, so when he gets out of the saddle, his Black Bottoms practically chafe my nose. It’s disgusting."

Don’t get me wrong, he’s got a nice butt—especially from all of the cycling we do. But like anything else, too much of a good thing can be unhealthy. Even after 22 years of marriage, there’s still areas of our lives where it’s possible to share too much information."

Coburn feels she was suckered into the lure of a tandem and wants to warn others.

"Couples see us and they think ‘Oh, how cute! That looks like fun! We should get a tandem.’ Don’t fall for it. The tandem industry doesn’t want you to know that the stoker’s role is one of indentured servitude. It’s a dirty secret."

Coburn adds, "If you ever see a smiling stoker, they’re in on the ruse. They’ve been duped, so they want others to be fooled too so they’re not alone. Misery loves company."

Coburn is on an inspired quest to expose the tandem stoker’s reality.

"Until now, no-one’s been brave enough to come forward with the ugly truth out of fear of reprisal from the tandem Mafia. I want my story—and that of other stokers—to be told in a Lifetime original movie. Or at least in a segment on Maury. I’m also thinking of starting a stoker support group.

"Unless you’re a proctologist, that’s way too long to spend with your face four inches from someone’s ass."

-Special thanks to the Hophead Velo Blog for this great post about the truth of tandems.